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Should My Daughter Play Rugby League?

  • Writer: John Fadel
    John Fadel
  • Mar 11
  • 2 min read
Young female rugby league player training and developing toward the NRLW pathway

(Decision Guide for Parents)


Introduction


Many parents ask the same question:


Should my daughter play rugby league?


The truth is, rugby league isn’t for everyone. But for the right athlete, it can be one of the most exciting and rewarding sports in the world.


Through my work with Excel Sports Management and years involved in female rugby league development, I’ve seen the early signs that suggest whether a young athlete could thrive in the sport.


These signs often appear long before a player even picks up a rugby league ball.


1️⃣ Athletic Signs to Look For to detemine where Should my daughter play rugby league?


One of the strongest indicators is speed and agility.


Interestingly, some of the best natural rugby league athletes come from sports like:


soccer


athletics


touch football


A strong soccer player often has:


excellent footwork


speed tempo


agility


explosive movement


Those attributes translate extremely well into rugby league.


Skill can always be taught later, but speed and agility are much harder to develop.


2️⃣ Physical Attributes


Another factor is body structure.


Some young athletes naturally develop stronger frames earlier.


For example, players with:


strong bone structure


natural power


height advantage


can often adapt very well to rugby league.


Different positions in the NRLW system benefit from different body types.


But natural strength and athletic ability are always good signs.


3️⃣ Toughness and Competitive Nature


Rugby league is a physical game.


One of the most important traits is mental toughness.


Parents should ask:


Does she enjoy physical competition?


Is she resilient when things get tough?


Does she enjoy challenging herself?


Players who thrive in rugby league usually enjoy the competitive environment.


4️⃣ Attitude Toward Training


Perhaps the biggest indicator is mindset.


Some young athletes simply love training and improving.


They want to know:


What do I need to train?


What should I practise?


How can I improve?


This curiosity and drive are often the biggest signs of future success.


5️⃣ The Biggest Mistake Parents Make


One of the biggest mistakes families make is guessing their training approach.


Many young players spend years doing programs that don’t actually help their rugby league development.


For example:


Some athletes jump into training styles like CrossFit.


While CrossFit can build strength, it can also add muscle mass that may reduce agility and flexibility if not balanced properly.


Rugby league athletes need a different combination:


explosive speed


agility


lateral movement


strength without losing mobility


Developing the right type of strength and movement is critical.


6️⃣ Why Proper Guidance Matters


Many players lose three or four years experimenting with random programs.


But if a player understands early:


what to train


what to practise


how to develop properly


their chances of progressing through competitions like the

Lisa Fiola Cup and

Tasha Gale Cup increase dramatically.


Final Thought


Rugby league can be an incredible sport for young female athletes.


But success comes from understanding the right attributes and the right development path early.


If your daughter has:


speed


agility


competitiveness


a strong mindset


then rugby league could be a fantastic opportunity.


And with the right guidance, the journey can be both exciting and rewarding.




 
 
 

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